I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love. ~ Mother Teresa
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Monday, September 29, 2008
WHAT DOES YOUR DAY MEAN?
find it here >>>> WHAT DOES YOUR DAY MEAN?
MONDAY:
Monday's child is fair of face.
You are good-looking, especially when you smile!
You are beautiful inside and out.
TUESDAY:
Tuesday's child is full of grace.
You have many talents, and are fun to be around.
You dance through life!
WEDNESDAY:
Wednesday's child is full of woe.
You are a serious person, and try to change things that seem unfair.
You make the world a better place!
THURSDAY:
Thursday's child has far to go.
You have many ideas, and you want to do them all.
You will go far in life!
FRIDAY:
Friday's child is loving and giving.
You are caring and sharing. You are kind,
you love people, and people love you!
SATURDAY:
Saturday's child works hard for a living.
You are ambitious, enjoy work, and like to accomplish things.
You know what you want!
SUNDAY:
But the child born on the Sabbath day,
Is fair and wise and good and gay.
You are sunny, fun, and loving.
You bring much joy to other people!
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I always liked this little poem...
I am a Tuesday (full of grace). What day are you ? leave a comment...
Week Number 137
http://curiousasacat.blogspot.com/2008/09/week-number-137.html
1) What is the single most important ingredient for a spiritual life? redeeming love
2) Who is the person you know with the freest spirit? steve
3) How does it make you feel when you hear people argue? I feel they should stop and laugh at themselves for a bit and then move on.
4) What one thing would you give to each of your ex-lovers? a cure for herpes (just kidding - but I am laughing)
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.
"Where's the BEEF!!?!??
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Friday, September 26, 2008
listen, do you want to know
what your heart has to say?
quieten yourself,listen, be
attentive for a few moments stop
verbalizing everything that pops into
your head, shhhh! your heart
wants to whisper a secret for
your ear, for you alone it's only
time, shed some time and see
what your heart says even if
you are upset at first eventually
you will feel better, whole, fructuous
just by simply listening to your heart
when you listen, conscientiously
for the secret of your heart
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Love Letter No 8 -Morning Love
The idea is to write a brief love letter ... This weeks theme – Morning Love
Write a love letter and share it...
Okay here's my "Morning Love" letter.
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Dear D,
Am I half awake or half asleep? I rise to your touch, you are with me. How could we sleep through the night and be awakened this way? You for me, and me for you. It happens, and I am so glad it happened to us.
We share our predawn morning, a sunrise, a day, a lifetime.
I will love you, every day.
L
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
On My Porch
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
highlights in hair
highlights in hair, firm hourglass
eyes of deep blue, total first class
what everyone suspected is true
feeling crazy, but not about you
perfect repose, gifts on display
dancing in rhythm, hypnotic sway
what everyone suspected is true
feeling crazy, but not about you
princess reborn, angelic nature
focus of love, beautiful creature
what everyone suspected is true
feeling crazy, but not about you
Monday, September 22, 2008
falls short
it wasn't a problem of feeling the care
the grace, the joy, the love was there
it wasn't a problem of being accepted,
complete trust happened no truth rejected,
it was fear, deadly fear, fear kills you know
i try to deny it, i can say "it ain't so"
but in fear i can't return the great prize
what i have to give falls short in my eyes
Week Number 136
1) If you had to exchange souls with someone you know for one day, who would you pick?
"a homeless person in NY city"
2) When were you happiest to come home?
"videoing the first baby arriving at home - has it been 19 plus years already..."
3) What is your favorite part of the yesterday?
"i honor memories by recording them"
4) What has been your greatest accomplishment in life so far?
"i told a friend about god's love once - i could tell it made a difference to him"
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.

"the invisible woman choosing an outfit"
oh little one
I am your friend, you are mine to call,
beautiful words building you up are grand,
but without love I am no friend
knowledge deep of mysteries profound
i am no friend if love does not abound
feed you and your family with finest fair
i am no friend if love is not there
oh little one, I will always be kind,
patient with grace, not jealous or blind
count on the fact of no selfish pride
love brings equality, no rudeness to chide
anger, brooding, rejoicing in wrong
these neither here or at worst, long gone
forgiveness unlimited, trust, hope too
power to endure trials of friendship with you
voices my fail, tongues and knowledge pass
you are never forgotten that is how long this will last
oh little one, friendship that lasting from above
there is faith hope and love, and the greatest is love
Friday, September 19, 2008
darkness and light
I exist in a depth of shadow,
of sheer spiritual eventuality -
secrets beyond understanding
mysteries hidden from me,
but no more than heaven's revelation
are secrets within life's sea
within there is value incomparable
the stars above held inside,
the lyrical being so lovely
usually cast carelessly aside,
love, concrete and amazing,
confronts contempt and won't hide
from one soul to next, love shows out
and shows up where loss brings regret,
revealed in every day people
without love we can't share what we get,
only love reveals depth and true nature
show some love, is there time, you bet
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“The human being down here in the darkness of his fleshly state is as mysterious as the saints in heaven in the light of their glory. There are in him inexhaustible treasures, constellations without end of sweetness and beauty which ask to be recognized and which usually escape completely the futility of our regard. Love brings a remedy for that. One must vanquish this futility and undertake seriously to recognize the innumerable universe that one’s fellow being carries within him. this is the business of contemplative love and the sweetness of its regard.” ~ Thomas Merton, September 20, 1966, VI. 137-38
Mayo to Pizza, and the comprehensive plan
1. There is no need to help, I can botch this up by myself.
2. Where in the heck did the mayonnaise get off to.
3. A couple of posts and an Excel file is all I managed to do.
4. Prospects for my teams winning season look dim.
5. "Move it, move it" is the message.
6. Simplicity and tranquility are part of my "comprehensive" plan.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to a night out, tomorrow my plans include using a squirt gun and eating pizza and Sunday, I want to eat at the fellowship supper at church!
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Love Letter No7- Our Love
The idea is to write a brief love letter ... This weeks theme – Our Love
Write a love letter and share it...
Okay here's my "Our Love" letter.
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Dear Y,
The magic we share in this love is profound!
I relish the freshness of our love. And our time together means everything.
We have grown through all we've shared.
I love the way we look at one another in unselfish humility. Proud of our love, yet submitted to one another. There is no treachery in this love, only openness and strength.
The character this has built within me, the character of our relationship, manifests our love in every way, every day of our lives.
Our love is strong, because we do it for each other.
I love you and want that more for each moment we share.
Our love is life, it's light, it's peace, it's joyful.
I Love You!
L
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
you could do this too
My passion is ...
faith, hope, love
I know too much about ...
(I'm not getting this) I don't think we can know too much... but I'll ponder
My parents always told me ...
'no one can take away your attitude, education, or salvation; those are always with you'
My childhood ambition ...
sports, computers, space (two out of three isn't too bad, and I enjoy sports, just didn't make it to the big time of sports)
My favorite memory ...
There was this time we were playing tunes on the porch of a house, there were birds joining in, it was quite miraculous to hear "nature sing"
Why I write ...
to crack the shell of ego and become transparent to me
What I am reading/watching/listening to ...
I've been reading blogs (see the right hand column), Oates, Rene' Girard, Updike, Bible, Manning, ten Boom; I have started the "Sarah Connor Chronicles" this month; Contemporary Gospel, Blue Grass, Traditional, Irish
My first job ...
US Army (odd jobs during school)
My best moment ...
Love and faith, coming from hope - the expression of these in many situations creates a life that is joyous, overcoming even in the face of extreme circumstance
My inspiration ...
grace that saves, sacrifice that nurtures, mercy that forgives, suffering that lifts up, love that empowers
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
You Make My Day Award

Shadow came along and shared this with me.
Things were actually a bit barren here and then all the edges got knocked off at once!
Thanks Shadow
now i need to pass them on, but i believe i’m going to dwell on this for a minute or so…… okay, but first “the rules”
(1) give this to people whose blogs mean something special to you - or give it to the blogs whose persons mean something special to you
(2) leave a comment on their blog so they know they got it
(3) you get to pick the number of times you give it
Meg at "Floundering Writer Meg" She's always whipping up something special.
Jouette at http://jouettelove.com/ I'm not sure how she defines love, but she knows it (and shares it) when she sees it.
Soliel at Just Another Blog - check her out.
I do love you folks on the right hand column of my blog. Feel free to "i-appropriate" this and award it as you see fit :)
I heard someone saying, "I don't know about kids, they get so much social interaction online, I don't know if they properly relate." Well I think the kids are alright, and y'all are too.
all the little hurts
a slight by a friend,
a grandparent dies,
a dent in a van door,
a bump at a street corner,
a parent dies,
a sprinkler is stepped on and broken carelessly,
a hot iron falls on nylon carpet leaves it's footprint,
a thousand little sticks, for blood sugar, blood counts, levels of all sorts
a word misspoken by a spouse,
a bump on the head from a car hatch,
a bony mass requiring radiation,
a church friend complains,
a doctor takes power to serve his ego,
a misguided lecture,
a faucet drips,
a pet dies young,
a job left behind,
a holiday with family,
a death too soon,
there are times when all the little hurts still hurt
this post in wordle format
Monday, September 15, 2008
wordle before Wednesday

Going ahead with this one on Monday -
It was linked off a previous post - If you asked
see that for how it all got started :)
and be sure to see the notes at the bottom of that post.
sky fire

"sky fire", catch it, grab hold
light articulate light
the desperation of the universe
for creation, that theme
resonates with
"sky fire"
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Sunday, September 14, 2008
a poem by the birthday boy (he's 12)
Juggle with fruits.
Observe people chopping meat.
Play tag with your very best friends.
Win a contest for a lifetime supply of Spam.
Play Wii or XBOX 360 in the electronics aisle.
Buy millions of energy drinks and go super hyper.
NOTE: I am not responsible for the content of this poem. This was done by my son who had a birthday Saturday. :)
I'll have to keep a closer eye on him when we go to the store. I was wondering where he wandered off to??? ~ LarryG
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Friday, September 12, 2008
Friday Fill-Ins #89
1. I enjoy connecting with people online.
2. "Is the Hokey Pokey what it's all about?" is something I wonder about often lately.
3. In your heart, you knew you were loved somehow, someway, by someone.
4. Take a song in your heart, add a little spring in your step and you end up with a recipe for dealing with life stress.
5. Life has gifted me with deprecating humor.
6. A reminisce is an instant vacation.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to a surprise, tomorrow my plans include birthday fun for my 12 yo and Sunday, I want to hear "something I'll really like" a la Rocky J. Squirrel of Bullwinkle fame!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Thursday Thirteen - First Steps of the day
Love Letter No 6- Messy Love
The idea is to write a brief love letter ... This weeks theme – Messy Love
Write a love letter and share it...
Okay here's my "Messy Love" letter.
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Dear C,
Our love is a beautiful fix. It does fix much. All the important things in life are taken care of.
But the details are messy, oh so messy. And I love the mess we are in.
This love has taken over places in my mind that surprise me.
I got to the grocery store and could only remember 3 items: flowers, a bottle of wine, and cheese. The dentist called yesterday and told me I needed to reschedule an appointment. I almost ran out of gas twice this week. I got lost on a back road and could not remember where I was going. I can't find an ink pen at my desk. My coffee cup was in the conference room all week where I wandered off from it.
My cell minutes are running over, I can't stand to be away from you. And a simple text becomes a declaration of love, they come at the most amazing times. I am completely blown away. Our communication touches me so profoundly.
It's a mess, my life is upside down, I want to turn it back over, I know you will be there because we are in this mess together.
Hanging on, sorting this out, how powerful to be swallowed up in love. Thrashing and crying out, this love has shook up the pieces of my life. And as they flow back together we are more thoroughly mixed than could have ever been before.
Don't think you must help me out, come on into this mess with me. Love will guide us to our destination.
I love you
L
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
If You Asked Me I Would
if you asked me
I’d go out with you anytime
become lost in your eyes
relish the lilting song of your voice
feel energy of presences overlapping
touch without a word, eyes locked
hand brushing lightly all over
blessing of touch renewed
bodies sliding together - apart
life’s dance of love
if you asked me
I’d let you into my being moment by moment
did we wake up this way?
laughing over spilled milk
eating crackers in bed
drinking in one another’s essence
condensing emotion
embraces anticipated…
if you asked me
I would let you wash every inch of me
in a thunderous mountain stream
thick with forest smell, leaf, fauna
skin braced in coolness,
every nerve aware of contact
water beaded jewels on your body
warmed again by caress
lying on warm stone in sun
both free and in sync
in the open air
if you asked me
I would let you into my emotional fortress
bound together as blood natives
battling forces of evil together
hands pulling loads together,
bodies bearing burdens of pain
shared resources of strength
comfort in each others very bosom
warmth pressed to warmth
a kiss, the heat of love
in lips, in chest to chest, in arms on backs
body banter, flesh flavor, discovery
fingers tangle, touch, avalanche
if you asked me
I would light up with you in body glow
with stars and moon observing
our lives a mist on a windy night
full mouths connect
empty hands embrace
where clothes once were
a garden in full bloom
two hearts one heart
our hands one hand,
this love one love,
our lives one life
awaken from the slumber ---
if you asked me, we would, you and I
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This post inspired by "If I asked you" over at 1 Door Away from Heaven -
this is a reflection of the mirror Shadow provided.
Thanks my dear friend...
Follow this link to a wordle of the two posts combined... "Asked To"
Wordless Wednesday
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
unbridled
imagine the cell rang,
it was me
you heard an ardent utterance,
it was me
three words like a lake's fog
it was me
did i hear correctly you wonder
it was me
that was totally beyond the norm
it was me
embarrassment to the nth degree
it was me
not now in front of everyone
it was me
then the moment becomes eternity
it was me
each hears the other's breath quicken
it was me
you've heard and you know
it was me
"I LOVE YOU"
an experience
Monday, September 8, 2008
i would rather
"The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost." ~ G. K. Chesterton
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i would rather have given all i could muster for love
taken chances, stayed up and out all night
made big blunders,
written apologies - felt ashamed of myself
than to have reserved my actions
i would rather toss my cares for all else aside
roll the dice with you, my dear
and had them come up snake eyes
even after throwing every ounce we had into it
than to have wondered later what if
i would rather be in the 12 steps of recovery from love
than watched from the sidelines
waited in pain or fear, risked nada
never attempting to run the race
than to have just let it go
i would rather have thrown all i could into love
and have it cave in on me
and be thrashing and screaming out
beneath the difficulty and pain of loss
than to have held back
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" 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. " ~ Tennyson
Week 134
1) What has been the most "sincere" expression of faith you have ever witnessed (I changed this one from insincere to sincere - dad was on my mind)? My dad was in ICU and a friend of his (a preacher) came by to see him. They got to talking about old times (dad led music at revivals). Then dad started singing -
"Got any rivers you think are uncrossable, Got any mountains you can't tunnel through, God specializes in things thought impossible. He does the things others cannot do."
Dad lived about another 6 or 7 weeks. He was serving notice he was ready to go.
2) If you could paint each room in your house a different color, what colors would you paint them? Green - kitchen, Gold - Living area, Sky Blue - Bedroom
3) What is the biggest myth about sex? Men want sex more than women. I think it is just that women have a different approach and it is more emotionally based.
4) Who is the most charming person you’ve ever met? There was a hostess at a national plastics convention, I don't know her name, but she was making announcements in the atrium, she looked right at me and blew my socks off :)
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.
No wonder they went out of business, no room under the front porch for a hound dog to get out of the shade.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Saturday, September 6, 2008
taking a dare
sometimes it feels over the top
other times know, no way to stop
see on each web, a huge sign of love
a clue here and there, descent of a dove
blatant in posts poetic with passion
obscure in a list staying in fashion
love's fingerprints are all over the web
built into each psyche, divine human thread
yes other emotions are there to be sure
times of distress, sickness, things to endure
often they bring a prayer for intervention
these fly round world, bring angelic attention
give the world notice of something that's out
love fills space between folks that's what its about
move right past the discomfort to share
love, bombed out love, worth taking a dare





